Why guys always keep his secret? 为何男人喜欢把秘密收藏起来？

Guy always keep what actually in their mind? Why? Or he will just tells his friend about it? when lady knows the 'secret' he will say I just don't hope you will angry of what I am doing? Lady might say, 'well as you know I might angry then why you want to do it? Guy then will try their best to change topics such as you know how much I love you I just don't hope you will angry. But when lady keep mention why you still do it? then he will say, ' what else can I do?' or 'don't you think you just want to control me for a little tiny matter.' or 'then you got think about me or my feeling? you just know to ask me how to care about your feeling, then how about me?' or any other much much more reason. Actually what do girl want and what does guy think or want... Is it that is a fact that what the differences between girl and guy. Who will actually know both want? what the middle point to get balance between the 'differences'?

男人永远把真相隐藏在心底？为什么？他也许会向他朋友述说？当女人知道所谓的秘密时，他就会为他自己而辩护，尽量找接口。例如：我只不喜欢你像现在这样生气而已。女人也许说，‘如果你知道我会生气那又如何要去做呢？男人那时只会试着转移话题，你又不是不知道我有多爱你，我只希望你不要生气。女人一定又有她的理由，男的也会觉得你为什么喜欢为了小事而大吵大闹。到底中心点来平衡这距离是在哪里？谁知道呢？